Glass Half-Full Living

First, let me say today’s post isn’t about happiness. Happiness is a relative term, with different meanings to different people; it is indefinable by the same definition for every individual. I’m not going to say “just lighten up” or any equivalent analogy. Today’s thoughts are centered on optimism. The glass half-full look at life. There is a distinct difference between these two words, although they are often used interchangeably. One writer said, "It is important for the Christian to understand that happiness does not equal optimism. Happiness is an emotion; optimism is a belief in the future. Our belief is in the Almighty God; therefore the Christian has the most opportunity to remain optimistic throughout life."

Quite infrequent are the days in which we’re sitting on the sofa, eating bonbons, picking daffodils in the back yard, and twirling like ballerinas in the green grass to a Tchaikovsky overture. Life can be hard! We have obstacles. We get disappointed. Simply stated, these are hard times.  Even the most dedicated of His servants feel compelled to give up on occasion. Surely we’ve all had days where we want to return to bed and pull the covers back up over our head.

Optimistic people tend to feel that life is good – they expect good things to happen. For example, you may not be content in your current job setting, but you stay committed because you have a belief that your hard work will pay off in the future, and you will have a more rewarding position in due time. An optimist can recognize that there are times situations just plain stink – like when we miss our flight, the unexpected flat tire, the car won’t crank, or a traffic jam causes unexpected delays. The optimist faces these aggravations without collapsing into a negative mindset that God is against them, and everyone else is too. (You know that person! The one who automatically concludes the universe and everyone in it is against them, and nothing will ever work out for their benefit. They tend to fall apart when something ruffles their feathers). Life Moment:  It can be exhausting for the rest of us to hear endless groaning and lamenting! Like your mother probably said, “If you can’t say something nice, don’t say it! And, “If you keep your face like that, it’s going to freeze!” The Christian really needs to try to be aware of his influence on others.

My husband applies and displays his rose-colored glasses a lot! He can’t help himself. It’s in his genes.  It is more so, a gift from the Father. He surely knew that someone, somewhere, at frequent times would need an encourager! (Maybe it was me HE thought of). Rose-colored glass wearers are optimistic! Do you know someone whose hope springs eternal? I sure hope so! (No pun intended)  These people look on the bright side – they help us to cope – they look for the good in others – they forgive easily. They help mold our perspective after we finish grumbling and fussing.

You may not have been genetically gifted with the “optimism gene.” Or perhaps you are married to someone who wasn’t gifted with this specific mindset. That’s okay. The Bible offers us many examples of optimistic people to glean from. The Apostle Paul was optimistic even though he fought his thorn in the flesh.  Job was optimistic when he reminded us that his Redeemer lives! Noah was optimistic for OVER 120 years while he preached, and the Ark was being built. Even though he was ridiculed and belittled, Noah had a profound belief that God would follow through on His promise to send rain. Noah looked ahead to the future. He didn’t fixate on the dry ground on which he built the ark.

I have a few pointers for exhibiting optimistic character in our lives:

1)    Lift someone else up. Optimists enjoy offering an encouraging word. Get your mind off your own vexed situation, and look for a way to be a blessing to someone else. The Christian who isn’t actively optimistic is not as effective for Christ as they could be! Be generous with your kindness. Go out of your way to speak to others.

2)    Face problems head on – and with the right attitude. The Bible clearly says (Romans, Chapter 8) that if He is for us, who can be against us? (paraphrased) I’m not suggesting we don’t go through pain and heartache, but it is good to be reminded that our Heavenly Father is the same God of Abraham and the Hebrew boys in the fiery furnace, Shadrack, Meshack, and Abednego.  Daniel 3:19 “Then was Nebuchadnezzar full of fury, and the form of his visage was changed against Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego: therefore he spake, and commanded that they should heat the furnace one seven times more than it was wont to be heated.”

He’s the same God who delivered those 3 Hebrew boys; the same God who delivered His people on a dry sea from pharaoh’s army. Our God is certainly a mighty God! He never changes.

3)    Be cautious – not negative. It’s wise to make an informed, prayerful decision. However, it gets you nowhere if you’re constantly negative. Be aware if you’re usually looking on the downside of a situation. Others will pick up on our attitudes. A negative attitude does not exhibit the grace and goodness of God. Pessimists drag others down, insult our feelings, and extinguish hope!

4)    Understand who you are. If you are a Christian, you are eternally HIS child. Because our Hope is in Christ, being optimistic puts hope into action. It helps us to dig our roots deeper into the heavenly kingdom. Optimism isn’t just an academic concept, or wishful thinking. Optimism is a real, tangible characteristic in the mature Christian. Proverbs 3:5 tells us “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not into thine own understanding.” Like Dr. Bob Jones said, "The optimistic Christian understands that the only true hope we have is Jesus. No matter how dark the horizon, through faith, we can face another day." You are the reason Jesus died on the cross. It’s for YOU that He gave His life. No person, place, or thing can ever change the matchless gift that Jesus gave mankind. Be confident Christian! Remind yourself, and the adversary who you are! You are forever HIS. Amen.

Life Moment: Take time to reflect. In what situation did you fail to be optimistic – you approached it negatively, but later realized you should have been optimistic from the start? What situation(s) in your life would improve with real optimism?

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Restore to Abundance

2 Corinthians 12:9 - And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.

Someone unexpectedly came across a stump among a pile of bricks and rubble. It was literally the remains of a tree stump, covered in ashes and soot, shy of one solitary branch and a few leaves. On a whim the citizen felt compelled to take this “hopeless stump” to Citywide Nursery in New York, NY, rather than throw it in the garbage.

The stump then became someone’s mission – Mr. Richard Cabo’s mission. "Cabo didn’t think the stump would survive, but he committed daily to watering, pruning, fertilizing, and stabilizing it. The stump, previously known as a Callery pear tree, gained new life, and is now known as the “Survivor Tree,” at Ground Zero. It has sense been returned to the memorial site (well over a year now) where it stands humbly and blooms every spring. Today it symbolizes the recovery of America"...those were the words of the writer who shared Cabo's story. As the Survivor Tree’s 30 ft. branches and leaves shimmer in the air, it brings to mind images of Old Glory shining in the sun, wind blowing, standing tall, forever memorializing the patriotism of men and women who have died for this great country of ours– those who have given their ALL – the ultimate sacrifice for all freedoms for its citizens.

You’ve probably guessed where I’m going with my illustration. This pitiable, beaten down, traumatized, discarded stump – is a representation of grace! God can and DOES use those discarded, less cared for, thrown away, down trodden lives to serve HIS purpose. My husband says, "God can always raise a phoenix out of the ashes! No matter where you’ve been or what you’re going through, the Almighty can restore you to abundance!" I’m not speaking directly of wealth (although He can do that too!) but I’m referring to abundant peace; abundant happiness. Joy.  Only He can bring true abundant joy – and it’s through grace. What marvelous grace He bestows!

Plants and other living things require nutrition – water, and food. Our 'love connection' with Christ Jesus is the same. With DAILY watering, pruning, stabilizing, and “Sonshine,” our spirits will develop. We’ll grow. Our daily actions will deepen our desire to serve Him. We will begin to flourish like the Survivor Tree, and become a beacon of light! It requires daily commitment.

I spoke with a kind, mild mannered lady several months ago. She introduced herself as “Margaret` - from El Salvador”. Margaret` suffered tremendous physical abuse in her childhood. Later, when she married at 16 years of age, her husband hurt her by “regular beatings,” as she phrased it. She lost both of her children when she left the marriage. She came to our country with nothing. Margaret` lost everything. She said she had never been so hurt, so discouraged, and so broken as when she entered the United States. She said she initially had “no one or nothing” to start with. (But she did have SOMEONE). She said her only hope was to keep moving – keep walking for fear she would die – to keep busy doing whatever she could. Over the course of 6 months, Margaret` lost 60 pounds, went from living in a shelter to being able to save up money for a tiny one-bedroom apartment, AND adopt a small dog. In six months, her life turned around completely!

I questioned Margaret` about her “walking routine;” she explained that in her early days, she found a headset on the sidewalk. She had picked it up, thinking she would put it in the nearby trashcan. But when she pushed the button, music poured out loud and strong. Christian music! This ONE Christ-centered song was what Margaret` listened to every single day, multiple times per day, as she walked. She said it encouraged her. It encouraged her to keep going. She said it reminded her that God wasn’t done with her life. Tell me that He doesn’t work in mysterious ways! Our God can do anything, with anything, and anyone! 

                                                                                                                     

So how about it, friend? Have you watered, pruned, and fertilized your spirit this week? Today? Are you a living symbol of grace like the Survivor Tree and Margaret`?

Look UP my friends!                                 

Friendship is a Gift

Proverbs 18:24 and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.

Some days we just need a friend.  At all times the Christian has an innate desire for God, but there are days and circumstances when we need HIM more than we need ourselves, you know? We need a true friend! In spite of our blessings and life gifts, we are melancholy and contemplative; maybe even sad. For example, when we hear of the passing of a loved one or visit someone sick in the hospital. When we see the trials someone else is going through, the Christian can’t help but want to bear part of the burden. It hurts us to see a brother or sister in Christ hurting.

One way of soothing the troubled soul is to recall the collection of times when a friend was there for you, or you in return saw a friend through a particular crisis. I have developed a short list of what I consider “Friendly Qualities.”

A Good Friend: A good friend starts with you.  Be a good friend, and you’ll attract good friends. Proverbs 17 tells us that a friend loves at all times! These friends are high-quality people to share a laugh with, break daily monotony, and you can generally be yourself around. "A good friend isn’t competitive or opportunistic," per Dr. Liza Standleheigt - a relationship expert. They will show respect by being communicative and supportive. The Bible teaches us to go to one another if there is a discord among us – it’s never a good choice to talk about the person – rather we need to talk TO them.  Good friends are immensely important! They bring happiness to our lives.

A Great Friend: Philippians 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.   In this passage, the Apostle Paul is telling us that it we need to fill our minds and conversations on what is beautiful and not “ugly,” better to praise things that are good – not curse them.

This friend may be out of reach for a few days, or a few months, but you’re able to pick up where you left off.  I hope YOU have a great friend like that! A great friend won’t leave you discouraged – they’ll try to point out the bright side of a stormy situation. When this friend tells you they’re going to pray for you – you can bank on it! They’ll encourage you to keep pressing on for Christ– move forward. A great friend will overlook your shortcomings. They are honest. Genuine. Lovely to be around. Great friends are often lifelong friends! Life Lesson:  if you have a friend who doesn’t support your Christian walk, they are NOT a good friend or a great friend!  A great friend will encourage you to live a deeper life of faith. If your spiritual convictions aren’t aligning with their convictions – this is probably not a great friend. They might be a great person, but that isn’t the same thing my fellow Christian. A great friend loves you before, during, and after….

Our Dearest Friend: You KNOW Him, don't you?  John 15:13 - Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. I don’t always comprehend it, because the love of the Father is miraculous. He died for you. He literally laid down His life for mankind. For anyone who knocks…He will enter.  He died for me! I’ll never “get over” this salvation, so rich and free! Revelation 3:20 - Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me. The fact that He knows my name! You do understand that HE knows your name. The sparrow that fall from the sky – every hair on our head. This God call us HIS friend!

My husband and I have a blessed life. I can only praise HIM for it! I’m not boasting – except on our Savior! We have had the privilege to minister through the preaching of the Word or through music in many states throughout the country.  We’ve met “God’s people” everywhere and are more richly blessed for it! We have been given many friends “far and wide – east and west,” as folks say. We have seen HIS work and we’ve taken pause at some beautiful places. But the greatest treasure in our lives is the gift of the truest Friend…the One perfect, dearest friend we have. His name is Jesus. I trust He is your dearest Friend too!

Look UP my friends!

Stand Up for Jesus

Have you ever witnessed or experienced a form of discrimination?  In researching this topic I read, "Age discrimination, employment discrimination, racial discrimination, disability discrimination, reverse discrimination, religious discrimination to name a few – discrimination is actively practiced throughout the world."  In today’s humanity, it is naïve not to be aware of religious discrimination – specifically discriminate behavior toward Christians. I personally hear about true accounts and events on a consistent basis. Perhaps you’re familiar with the NAACD, Inc? The National Alliance Against Christian Discrimination (NAACD, Inc.) – Their website says it is, "A nationwide effort to monitor and speak out against anti-Christian bias, bigotry, intolerance, defamation, and discrimination towards Bible believers. They are a nonprofit, tax-exempt 501(c)(3) educational and religious organization. " (I have no affiliation with them whatsoever). I encourage you to check out their website – read true life examples for yourself. I have copied a couple of brief articles from their page for this post:

Bible Club Bullied
“A university in Ohio has threatened the future of a campus Bible organization for requiring voting members and office holders be Christian. According to Campus Bible Fellowship representative Gary Holtz, his group had been a registered student organization at Wright State University in Dayton, Ohio, for more than 30 years. Upon seeking re-registration for 2009, however, the university denied the Bible group’s access to facilities, student club fairs, advertising venues and recruiting opportunities—essentially blacklisting the club—because of CBF’s requirement that voting members adhere to a doctrinal statement and a belief in Jesus. A Christian rights group is now helping them.” (WorldNetDaily. 3/3/09.)

Elementary School Blots Out God
“An elementary school in Tennessee, after successfully rebuffing an American Civil Liberties Union lawsuit over religious expression on campus, has nonetheless ordered the words ‘God Bless the USA’ and ‘In God We Trust’ covered up on student-made posters in the hallway.
Administrators at Lakeview Elementary School in Mr. Juliet, Tenn., told parents that the posters, promoting the See You at the Pole student prayer event, mentioned ‘God’ and are therefore precluded by school board policy and prohibited in the always as inappropriate.
‘Christian students shouldn’t be censored for expressing their beliefs,’ said ADF Senior Counsel Nate Kellum in a statement. ‘It’s ridiculous as well as unconstitutional to cover up these references to God and prayer—one of which is the national motto.’” (WorldNetDaily. 3/3/09)

We all know the saying “Life isn’t fair,” but it’s healthy to note that the evil one DOES target the Believer.  Christians are often the target of reverse discrimination – I encourage you to stand up in the right way, at the right time, and in the right spirit! Previously, I have quoted the scripture in 1Peter 5:8 “be sober, be vigilant: because your adversary the devil, as a roaring Lion walketh about, seeking whom he may devour.” I don’t know about you, but if a lion were stalking me, literally trying to kill me, and I could SEE it, FEEL it, or HEAR it…I’d act differently. Wouldn’t you? I would take precautions! The Bible doesn’t lie. It is infallible in every way. The Word does describe the evil one as this roaring lion –Take heed, Christian. Let’s not be overly confident within ourselves. Take precaution first – then take action! Be aware of your environment, your kids’ environment. If you find yourself being discriminated against because of your love of God, you are not alone! Many have been martyred in Jesus’ name – many will continue to be persecuted. Phillipians 1:29 tells us “For unto you it is given in the behalf of Christ, not only to believe on him, but also to suffer for his sake.”

Have you heard of the Thompson brothers, Joshua and Caleb, from Austin, Texas? I first came to know of them through mutual Christian friends about six years ago. I saw a video testimony from their mom, Mona, and it made an incredible impact on me. {You can now find this video by Mona Thompson on YouTube}  On December 10, 2003, the lives of 24 year old pastors, Joshua and Caleb Thompson, and that of their families were altered in a most drastic way. The twenty-four year old twin brothers, never convicted as so much as a traffic ticket prior to this situation, were convicted in an Austin, TX Court of Law for injury to a child. Pastor Joshua was sentenced to twenty-six years and Pastor Caleb to fourteen years in the Texas State Penitentiary. They applied corporal punishment to an eleven year-old boy who attended their church. {This punishment was authorized by the child’s mother prior to school admission. Apparently, he had been “kicked out” of public schools prior to entering this private setting}.

I am not arguing guilt or innocence, but rather that their sentences are unreasonably severe. Christian/religious discrimination if I’ve ever seen an account! This does and can happen to “regular people” and “regular” Christians! Right here in America!  Lots of allegations of severe beatings, tree branches, intensive care and other misinformation were heinously depicted by the media.  Part of what is most disturbing to me, is that a convicted child molester or serial rapist can get out in less than 3 years but they will lock these men up for decades. Something is seriously wrong.  Life Moment - God is in actuality using these two men in their current environment. They have led many to the saving knowledge of Christ Jesus. We can be used in our current situation too!

You’ve seen or experienced the “nice guys finish last,” adage? I have too. Unfortunately there’s often an underlying truth in that statement. But, let’s be reminded it’s on the short-term! Our treasures are in heaven. Eternally!  This reminds me of one particular work place occurrence - in a “different life” I was required to demote the boss’s sidekick. By sidekick I mean extra-marital affair; I don’t know any other way to say it. Sometimes we Believers just need to call it as we see it. Stop “nice-ing up” everything. This extracurricular behavior isn’t shocking – with our divorce rates what they are, “work husband and work wife” mentalities, our work places are often a den of iniquity!  Life Moment – If you have a workplace spouse, whom you aren’t married to, divorce them! It’s not a formula for a happy marriage at all. So, the individual was under-performing in many ways and wasn’t meeting company benchmarks on any satisfactory level – even after much teaching, coaching, and mentoring. It was the right decision. Sometimes we must recognize what’s simple – you can’t teach someone who doesn’t want to learn, an old dog CAN learn a new trick of they have a willing heart and the right teacher, and people aren’t always promoted based on job skill and talent.  No doubt about it – a Christian can find himself in a firepot before he knows it! Well, you know who had to do the dirty work – and you also know who the “odd man out” was after the demotion. It wasn’t really fair – it wasn’t really nice – in fact it was treating the nice guy with discrimination!  How does that happen? Our intentions were good but we’re misunderstood? We meant well, but it backfired on us? It came out wrong. You didn’t mean it like it sounded. You don’t have a hidden agenda. You were in the wrong place at the wrong time.  Those things have probably happened to you before too. As I stated before, know your environment! Be aware! And you know what? God will open another door. The correct door! He always will. And often…it’s a better door! Don’t let unfair or misguided treatment define who you are! Let it go – I encourage you to find your voice – stand up for Jesus – resist religious discrimination! And then let God do with it what He wants to. Leave it on the altar!  Life Moment: Continue to be nice. Give respect even when someone doesn’t necessarily deserve it. You won’t regret it. Try not to judge others. It’s really not our place! There’s one thing about it – if you had to list your sins in a book – wouldn’t your book be lengthy?

My book would be War and Peace length…

Look UP my friends!

Stand Up, Stand Up for Jesus
By: George Duffield

Stand up, stand up for Jesus
As soldiers of the cross.
Lift high his royal banner;
It must not suffer loss.
From victory unto victory
His army he shall lead
Till every foe is vanquished
And Christ is Lord indeed.

Stand up, stand up for Jesus;
The trumpet call obey;
Stand forth in mighty conflict
In this his glorious day.
Let all his faithful serve him
Against unnumbered foes;
Let courage rise with danger
And strength to strength oppose.

Stand up, stand up for Jesus;
Stand in his strength alone;
The arm of flesh will fail you,
You dare not trust your own.
Put on the Gospel armor;
Each piece put on with prayer.
Where duty calls or danger,
Be never wanting there.

The Season is Now

 “It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair, we had everything before us, we had nothing before us…” This opening in Charles Dickens’ A Tale of Two Cities, debatably, captures one of the best introductions of all time.

Let’s look at this concept in a Biblical manner. The sentiment “of seasons” rings true for the Christian as well – in a season of darkness, there remains a season of Light! In a season of despair, there remains a season of Hope. In a season of grief, there continues a season of Comfort. The Bible teaches us in Ecclesiastes Chapter 3:

To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:

² A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;

³ A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;

⁴ A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;

⁵ A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;

⁶ A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;

⁷ A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;

⁸ A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace

I believe we are living in a time of unmatched opportunity. We Christians are born for such a time as this. But I also accept as true that the door of prospect is open for a period of time known only to the Father. Christians KNOW the day and the hour of our Lord’s return is unknown to all except to Him! But, the reality is that things are moving swiftly toward the biggest event that we as Believers all look for, the promised return of Jesus to rule and reign in His Kingdom on earth.

I probably don’t need to convince you that there is another kingdom opposing our heavenly kingdom. The evil one has an adversary for every situation in the life of the Christian! I implore you to press on Christian soldier! Continue to fight the good fight.

One television Christian minister said, "Our nation is heading in an erroneous direction because righteousness fails to rule in the hearts of her people, Christians and non-Christians alike.   In my opinion our nation has entered a season of winter – largely because there is a falling away from God."  Many people, good people, have absolutely zero interest in hearing about our Savior. It is widely understood that church attendance has widely declined; the line between living a consecrated life and an unrighteous life has blurred; many luke-warm Christians occupy our church pews, barely taking time to listen to the pastor. The majority prefer a sermonette compared to a sermon.  Personal convictions are lessening - or seem to be at least. Christians are often afraid to stand up for Biblical principles for fear of retribution. As Ecclesiastes says in verse 7 – there is a time to speak, fellow Christian! “A time to build up,” says verse 3.

Life Moment: Quite often people assign their reason for “no church attendance” as they’ve been hurt or disappointed by someone in “the church.” We must be mindful that our actions have an immediate impact on others! No church is perfect, but there are many great churches across our nation. As you’ve probably heard, if church was perfect YOU wouldn’t be in it!  It may not be fair that we have to accept blame for something someone else has done, but it remains true that as Christians, we should live our lives above reproach so that in our season of living, others can see our love for Him. Be friendly. Be honest. Don’t stir up trouble. Try to refrain from criticizing. Most of all, don’t fake your spiritual walk with God. Who you really are will be revealed when you least expect it.

A few weeks ago I invited a new acquaintance to attend church with me. The lady went on to tell me every problem, difficult situation, hurt feeling, bruised ego, and unfair thing she had ever witnessed during her early years of church attendance.  First of all, let’s get our eyes on HIM, and off of our fellow body of Believers! She is holding on to things from years ago – decades even.  She refuses to attend church now because her husband refuses to attend. I don’t understand that line of thinking. Wouldn’t our concern for our husband’s soul outweigh our lingering concern for our own hurt feelings? Where else can we go but to the Lord, for our hurt feelings; our sorrow. Where do we go to cast our burdens? To Him.  I’m not trying to sound harsh here, but if I quit every time I had a hurt feeling, well, I simply wouldn’t make it. We teach our children to get back up, get back into the game, shake off the pain, and dig deep! So shouldn’t we apply this sense of tenacity to our church attendance? To serving Him? To following Him in good times and in bad?

It’s time to assess ourselves and understand what season we’re in. Is it time to heal? Is it time to sew? Time to laugh? Let’s resolve our way of thinking about “religion” and embrace a season of HIM. His season never ends. His light is the ONLY light to a lost and dying world. His season is the only cure for the soul, whatever and whosoever.  

As Yogi Berra said “It ain’t over till it’s over.” I don’t think God has not given up on us as a nation; however, Christians have a work to do! The season is now.

Look UP my friends!

The Good Book

Take me to an intimate library or a large chain book store, and I’m a happy girl. I’m one of the people who loved a cozy book-nook area long before the large box warehouses became so common place. But I’m not discriminate; I admit I’m easily enchanted with those as well. I’ve also been known to linger a little too long in the community post office. Take a quiet, deep breath the next time you’re in one. Have you noticed that post offices produce their own bouquet of aroma? The paper, glue, and envelopes merge together to bring forth a fragrance of pure delight for me. There’s just something special about paper and books! It’s what cream is to java and peanut butter is to jelly for me.

Perhaps my affection for books was both soothed and propelled by the 1970’s turntable record player I had.  Prior to early elementary school, I completely wore out my vinyl records of Ferdinand the Bull, Where the Wild Things Are, and The Boy Who Held Back the Sea. How I loved to follow along in my book as the woman’s soft and charming voice read the stories to me. The distinct “ping” to turn the page was music to my little ears.

So, along with my ardent friendship with books, I have a deep affection for those things penned, written, and engraved. I love old fashioned paper, cards, letters, quotes, things of inscription…you name it. A hand written note can be a precious keepsake. A book with notes scribbled inside, an index card with the baker’s notes (or blackberry stained fingerprints) quilled for an important instruction, a brief note from our spouse – “I love you. Have a good day.”  Those ordinary transcriptions can be quite extraordinary if we take time to treasure them. It’s one reason why I choose to send a snail mail birthday card, or a get well encouragement, if at all possible, with a hand written note. Besides, it’s nice to receive something other than a bill on occasion, right? LIFE MOMENT - I notice I’m more “old school” the older I get. How about you?

How much MORE should we care for God’s Word! Ask yourself what about His Word... How do you treat it? It really troubles me when I see the “Good Book” being ill-treated. Sometimes I can’t help but wonder if the person who leaves their Bible on the church pew each week, has another one at home to read. Is your Bible left in the backseat of your car to endure the extreme heat of summer or the cold of winter all week? Maybe you have a family Bible in the den with weddings and funerals listed, but it has collected a lot of dust this year. You don’t actually read it. Friend, I hope The Book is not used as a beverage coaster at your home – kept handily beside the sofa just for that purpose. Have you read the Book outside of church this week? Last week? How about the week before that? Treat your Bible with care!

We must CARE for God’s Word – the “Good Book” is the best book you’ll ever find or read! It really is NO comparison to any favorite hardcover or manuscript we might have. God IS the Word. John 1:1 says, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.”

How do you experience the fragrance of heaven if not in the pages of the Holy Scripture? Life Moment – How often do I spend time in God’s Word? Regardless of what your answer may be, it is not nearly enough.

It is difficult to truly narrow down a favorite book in the Bible but one of mine, undoubtedly, is Jonah. An excellent Masterwork of four brief chapters, Jonah also resonates in Herman Melville’s Moby-Dick, where it serves as text for Father Mapple’s grand sermon. The book of Jonah is nestled away in the Old Testament among prophets such as Amos and Micah. Jonah tells us of the importance of obedience! Nobody comes out smelling like a rose in this book – whether it is Jonah himself, the ship captain and his men, or the king of Nineveh.  Even the gourd sheltering Jonah from the sun comes to a debauched end. But we also see how regular people serve a purpose – and if God says go – we should go!

Again, I encourage you to treat your Bible with tender; loving care…it IS your direct communication with God. Do you have a favorite book of the Bible?

Look UP my friends!

Climbing Stage

How about that problem you’re facing this week? Has it cast a shadow over your otherwise blessed and good life? You know the one…the one your thoughts have been recently consumed with. The one that you’ve lost sleep over, thought about in the wee hours of the dark, worried over, tried to fix within your own means, maybe shed a few tears of anguish over. Maybe you’ve been carrying around misguided guilt for a sin that’s long been forgiven and forgotten? {As people, we tend to beat ourselves up long past when God has washed it away - white as snow through the blood of Jesus}. Isaiah 1:18 ^“Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.”

DO you have a huge mountain in your life right now? I once heard a preacher say that if you aren’t in a valley, then pray up, because every Christian will go through a valley for God’s honor and glory. “If you aren’t being tested, then your wood is wet.” (I would encourage you, if you cannot relate; perhaps you’re on TOP of the peak; pray for those of us who are in the climbing stage!)

Or perhaps you can remember a problem that seemed mammoth to you – you stressed about how things would work out, IF they would work out – the situation just seemed bigger than God. Only to look back and see that God was in control all along! There was clearly no reason not to trust in HIM. The fact is we all have trials, valleys, burdens, and heart aches.

I learned this evening about a 41 year old mother of three who died in the hospital just within the last couple of days. I heard of another incident, where 6 young kids were killed in an automobile accident about two weeks ago, all under the age of 11 years old. People are hurting – for a multitude of reasons. The examples I listed are “extreme,” but there’s no doubt, you too know people in your life who seem to be “going through the fire” in various ways. Or maybe that person is you.

However, we must take time to consider that when we allow our problems to dominate our thoughts and actions, then God fades into second position in our lives. We must be mindful.

It is good to be reminded of what the apostle Paul said in the book of Ephesians. Ephesians 3:20 -21 “Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us, Unto him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages, world without end. Amen.”

In essence, Paul is saying to us the following:

·         God is able to do MORE than we ask

·         God is able to do MORE than our minds can  imagine

·         God’s abilities ARE immeasurable

·         Unto Him be ALL glory

·         Throughout all of time, all of the ages, HE is Almighty God, the King of Kings

Wow! I think that’s sufficient doctrine to help me face my problems! But let me further say, there are many more scriptures that remind us WHO Jesus really is. The apostle Paul tells us that God works “according to his power that is within us.” This refers to resurrection power! The power that raised our Lord Jesus from the dead!

Maybe you’re thinking, “Well, that sounds pretty good to me, but I don’t know how it applies to my situation.” Think of it this way – Since our Father in heaven raised His Son, Jesus, from the dead, doesn’t He have the power to meet every need and every problem in our life? The answer is a resounding…yes!

God’s power described so beautifully in Genesis – doesn’t stop there. Yes, He created the moon, the stars, the waters, and the land. But He is also at work within us who are His children. I have found that sometimes we get in the way when God is working within our lives. He doesn’t need our help! Try not to insist on doing things your way. The Bible (Isaiah 55) clearly tells us that His ways are NOT our ways. His thoughts are not our thoughts. A final reminder is that it’s important for us to be obedient. When we cooperate with God, it sure makes life easier! I’ve learned this lesson the hard way.

So, reassess your problem/dilemma ---- now exactly what is TOO big for God? Immeasurably nothing!

Look UP my friends!

Love of a Child

 

I John 4:7 Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.

Today’s post will be a short one. I don’t want to mess it up with my words! And thanks to the friend who first shared this precious story with me. May you be blessed in return!

They call him the Sky Angel Cowboy. Thirteen year old Nebraska rancher, and full-time cowboy, Logan, has become an internet sensation. If you haven’t seen/heard the footage of his call to a local radio station, please let me share his message with you. I couldn’t get Logan’s voice out of my mind last night. So, with today being Valentine’s Day, I couldn’t think of a grander, more precious example of love.

Logan listens to “Sky Angel” radio when he’s out roping cattle with his dad, or working on the family’s ranch. Because their ranch is literally in the middle of nowhere, listening to KSBJ Christian radio is one avenue in which Logan sustains his intimacy with God. Logan called into the radio station one recent morning – to share a message that God had shared with him.

The afternoon before, Logan’s dad was working on the ranch, and had roped a calf. Logan tells the story through sniffles and a shaky voice. He articulates so sweetly to the radio announcer, “She came from a really old cow. But she wasn’t very healthy. She didn’t have good milk with enough Vitamin C. {there’s a pause}

Well, she broke her back.” (An audible gulp, deep breath can be heard)  And this morning, I went out and put her down myself.” He silences his cry to fight back tears.

“I was talking to God – I was asking God WHY – she was special.” (He fights hard to keep himself composed). And God answered and He said, “You know, Logan, my Son was special. But He died for a purpose.”

Logan gulps and says, “It’s kind of the same thing.  That calf was close to me, and God’s Son was close to Him.” He takes a deep breath. Sniffles again. You can hear the tears in his voice. “Are you gonna’ be okay?” the announcer asks.

“Yeah, I’m okay. I just wanted to tell you guys, because this is so important. It’s so important just remember when you lose a loved one or a pet, that God gave His Son too. He understands. He will always understand. He will always. Just run to Him!”

They say their goodbyes, and Logan hangs up. Not before he tells the announcer, “Love you.”

He is wise beyond his years – and obedient – to share with the world what God had shared with him.

Romans 10:13  For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved

 

It’s true – God’s Son died for a purpose. That purpose was YOU! Me. Our children. Our spouses. Our communities. Our family members. Those we know – those whom we haven’t met. The whole world…

God LOVES YOU. His “Valentine” loved us enough, HIS ONLY begotten son, for WHOSOEVER, to give up His life! That means everyone. (John 3:16) For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Look UP my friends!

A Slippery Slope

I Kings 3:9 Give therefore thy servant an understanding heart to judge thy people, that I may discern between good and bad: for who is able to judge this thy so great a people?

Let’s reflect on the life of Solomon. King Solomon, son of King David and Bathsheba, is well-known in the Old Testament for his knowledge and wisdom. He is also known for his wealth, which was gifted to Solomon by an Almighty God. The first book of Kings (OT) tells a renowned story of two women.  Two certain women called upon Solomon, asking him to resolve which of the two of them should be awarded the undecided birthright of a baby. I read an article that summarized it well..."Both mothers claimed to have given birth to the little one. Since they couldn't come to a lateral decision, Solomon came up with what sounded like a logical idea. He suggested the baby be cut and split in half between the two women. When one of the women immediately learned that the much-loved baby would be killed, she no longer cared whether she got to raise him or not. Maternal instinct kicked in, and she just wanted her baby to be safe, even if she wasn’t awarded custody. The other potential mother didn't seem concerned: she wanted her half. She literally agreed to have the child killed, so that she could leave with her half of the child. Solomon decided the real mother -- or at least the one who should be the real mother -- was the one who was selfless. She willingly gave up her child rather than see him destroyed." This was a great illustration of wisdom on King Solomon’s behalf. Genius!

However, at the close of Solomon’s reign as king, his relationship with God waxes thin as he compromises with his numerous wives, wealth, and most importantly, his personal relationship with God. "Now the LORD was angry with Solomon, because his heart was turned away from the Lord God of Israel, which had appeared unto him twice." We learn of God telling Solomon, "Wherefore the Lord said unto Solomon, Forasmuch as this is done of thee, and thou hast not kept my covenant and my statutes, which I have commanded thee, I will surely rend the kingdom from thee, and will give it to thy servant.”

(1Kings 11:9-11).  As a result of King Solomon’s actions, the kingdom was divided in half - into two kingdoms, Solomon’s house retaining the lesser of the two. This would be considered a modern day “fall from grace.” How hard the king did fall? One article said, "Disobedience can result in many cutting consequences. It can result in lifelong scars.  No one’s life gives us a more vivid picture of this principle than Solomon’s slippery decline. Perhaps the fall of Solomon is one of the most disappointing stories of a man’s outcome in the entire Bible."   Here was a man who started out so well, only to finish dishonorably as recorded in I Kings 10 and 11. I doubt he expected his “demotion!”

Life Moment -Disappointment is sometimes a surprise. Maybe not to others, but to us, the individual! Best to make preparation to avoid it when at all possible! Sin is a slippery slope! Very slippery.  This illustration of how “smooth” sin can be was captured so well in a great classic song sung by The Cathedrals which says, “Sin will take you farther than you want to go, slowly but wholly, taking control! Sin will leave you longer than you want to stay; Sin will cost you far more, than you want to pay!”

Early in my nursing career I went to see a patient who was being transported to the Recovery Room after a session of ECT. For those unfamiliar, ECT was/is also known as electroconvulsive therapy. It is a procedure in which electric currents are passed through the brain, intentionally triggering a brief seizure. ECT seems to cause changes in brain chemistry that can quickly reverse symptoms of certain mental illnesses. It often works when other treatments are unsuccessful. Much of the stigma attached to ECT is based on early treatments in which high doses of electricity were administered without anesthesia, leading to memory loss, fractured bones and other serious side effects. I can confidently say the patients I witnessed were all treated with dignity, respect, and a great deal of care. I never saw any unethical treatment.

So, in this small recovery room, I found myself. Anxious to make sure the patient was resting comfortably, I stayed glued to her bed. In her profession, she worked as a nurse too, so I felt a kindred spirit of sorts. In a few moments, I noticed the nurses had Christmas carols playing on a small FM radio on the nurse’s station– specifically Carol of the Bells, one of my favorites.  As her eyes were closed, I trusted she was resting comfortably. She also must have been listening to her immediate environment. “I must be in heaven,” the woman whispered to me. “I hear bells.” Before I could respond, her eyes opened wider – her gaze intensified. “No, this ain’t heaven,” she said. “There’s Dr. Dellio.”  I had to turn around quickly to keep him from seeing me laugh out loud! After I finished my chuckle, I happily re-stated, “No Peggy, this ain’t heaven!” We smiled at each other.

Later as her depression began to lift, and she was more open to discussion, I asked her about her long term plans and what was the real reason she had tried to commit suicide? Why was she non-compliant with taking her medications? Did she have a local church home?  Her simple response, “I didn’t know I had deteriorated.”

Life Moment -- The first sign of the deterioration, decline and self-sabotage that signals disobedience, is a loss of our intimate relationship with the Lord. Regardless of how sturdy and steadfast you think your walk with God might be, anyone, even a king like Solomon, may fall down a slippery slope by not paying sufficient attention to God’s word – on a daily basis. (Not being faithful to God’s house is a red flag too).  Our unconditional devotion to God is necessary, and we cannot divide our devotion between God and any other thing. HE must be first!
Assess your life – do you see someone you love, or yourself, moving toward the slippery slope of temptation or destruction? Pray, discuss in love, pray some more, invite them to know God.

Look UP my friends!