A Wonderful Life

 

 

“Story starters” are sometimes something all writers need - there are times when the words just refuse to come out. We write a few words, delete (or toss our notes into the bin), try again... nothing...you stare blankly at the page or screen. 

Other times, we can sit down and write automatically, with no hesitation, for several hours…I think God grants those moments. Those times when the “ink to pad” flows. I know for myself, if my thoughts don’t come easily, I try to walk away, pray about what is impressed upon my heart, and I try again later.

My story starter today goes back to a sign that hangs in our home at all times. It’s an old board, painted a deep crimson red with black lettering that says, “It’s a Wonderful Life.” I purposefully enjoy reading it as much as possible. It just speaks to me during times of struggle or discouragement.

You’re probably familiar with the movie starring James/Jimmy Stewart, who plays George Bailey. George intends to commit suicide on Christmas Eve. Thankfully, the movie does not have a tragic ending - partly due to Clarence Odbody, his guardian angel. Clarence intervenes and shows George how his life affected the family and friends around him.

After much anguish, George realizes that in spite of himself, in spite of his hardships and struggles, his life has been a blessing to many people. His prior intent to jump off a bridge instantly changed, and he returned to his family. (And Clarence earns his wings…announced by the ringing of a silver bell). Aaaahhh what a beautiful ending! It isn’t the typical “beautiful story,” but I don’t mind. Because our lives don’t always feel beautiful, right?!

The movie reminds me that our lives are FULL of good things; innumerable blessings that can be easy to take for granted. But more than that…many times we don’t see how our lives have a REAL meaning to those around us!

Unfortunately, the holiday season can be extremely difficult for tens of thousands of people. Sometimes, we just need a genuine kind word. A friend. A nugget of encouragement. Tell people you love them. Say thank you. Be selfless on occasion. Ask if you can help them with something needing done. Listen. Try to focus less on yourself – and more on being a blessing to others.

Our family experienced the suicide of a family member many years ago – possibly over 23 years now. Hubby’s great-aunt and uncle and extended family members just spoke about it at a recent family reunion. It’s still painful for them to recall. Hurt still lingers. Sadness persists.

Oh, how I do wish that the person would have known what George Bailey learned to know…that our lives were better for having him with us!

YOUR life DOES make an impact to those around you…You DO matter. Tune OUT the nay-sayers. Those that may attempt to make you feel worthless or undervalued. Those who might hurt you with no regrets. You can be and ARE a blessing to someone. Really.

The King of Kings and Lord of Lords gave His life on Calvary for YOU…that’s more love than I can capture in my mere humble words.

HIS matchless gift does make this…A Wonderful Life! (Be sure to read Clarence's note below!)

Look UP my friends!