Part I – Life Half-Full
It can be challenging to look at life as a “Glass
Half Full” experience…but we need to try! However, as you readers know, it is a
little more complex than merely considering ourselves as either Pessimist or
Optimistic. I found a great
article written by Maggie Young on how some people are able to look at life as
“half full.” So, let’s take a closer look at Beth Bale.
For noble reasons, Valentine’s Day is ornamented with the ultimate symbol
of love: the heart. The heart is life – it pumps the life sustaining blood we
need. The heart in essence gives life, and in return life gives the ability to
love. Beth Bale is a 64-year-old heart transplant survivor, who appreciates
this relationship between love and life. Her transplant offered her a viewpoint
most people don’t ever experience and gave her deeper connection to living life
“half full.”
The writer told Beth's story something like this..."In 2000, Beth’s journey started when she experienced shortness of breath
while traveling to her cousin’s wedding. She knew it was serious and consequently
met with a clinical cardiologist right away. The news she received was
stunning: her heart was enlarged and weakened, and she would need a transplant
at some point in the future. The doctor officially diagnosed her with
cardiomyopathy, a weakness of the heart muscle. Before long, a defibrillator
was implanted under her collar bone. She couldn’t stay in denial much longer. Beth
knew that she would ultimately require a heart transplant to stay alive."
Beth said, “Ten years was a pretty good run, but it was the inevitable
progress of my condition.” She was blessed and was matched with a donor in
short amount of time – less than a few weeks. It was the point of no return!
The long anticipated surgery was at Beth’s crossroad of life and she was
excited to finally feel better. (Life Moment – She was tired of feeling
“sick and tired.” She made up her mind and purposed in her heart that having a
transplant was GOOD news).
When Beth awakened from anesthesia her first thought was “I’m alive, I
made it through.” And,
according to Beth, each day gets better and better. (Notice she said gets better – not got
better – the use of ‘gets’ shows an active verb – not past tense) The article concluded by saying, "She embraced her surgery knowing
many patients don’t have the happy mind-set and outcome that she did. Beth said
that she believes her happy recovery could be in part because of the “half
full” approach she took to life."
I’m not suggesting that having an organ transplant
is the “way to go” to find a glass half-full life, but I am saying that our
thoughts, our mind-set, and WHAT or WHO we purpose our hearts to – can make the
difference in our lives. I'm just thankful I got to read her testimony. Answer the following questions for yourself:
Question:
Are You Able To Laugh At Yourself?
Absolutely
Not! I'd prefer thinking that I am perfect.
Usually. But, sometimes my sensitive nature can't make light of stuff.
Absolutely! Life is funny in general, including myself.
Not usually, I don't really like being the brunt of a joke.
Question: What Is Your "Happiness
Factor?”
Happy.
Unhappy most of the time.
Not so happy.
Mostly happy.
Question: What is your "Fear Factor?”
Fear paralyses me.
I take a deep breath and fiercely face my fears.
I tend to shy away from situations that make me fearful.
I figure fear is just a part of life, I move myself through it as best I can.
Question: Are You in Control of Your Life?
I'm in control as much as anyone can be.
I have so little control I hate it.
I try to stay on top of things, sometimes I have lapses
and let others make decisions for me.
I don't have any control. I feel powerless.
It’s important for the Christian to understand that
while we have ‘free will,” we are not in control of our lives. We’re able to
make choices – the good ones, bad ones, and the ugly. But the “power of self”
does not control our lives. It doesn’t make us powerless to give our lives over
to an Almighty God! Being a child of God awards us peace, protection, and His
presence in our lives! (It is crucial to be honest with yourself...Do YOU live in fear? Is your glass half-full?)
I’ve written repeatedly that I think joy – laughter
– and a good sense of humor are VITALLY important in leading an overall happy
life. It’s healthy to laugh at ourselves. Christians should be happy people!
If fear is paralyzing you – then I implore you to seek
God during these times. It is not God’s will for any Christian to have a spirit
of fear in your life that ‘reigns’ as dominant. The Bible says in Isaiah 41:10 Fear
thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will
strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right
hand of my righteousness.
Today’s
Prayer: Heavenly Father I pray to you in Jesus’ name.
You know that I
I have fear and sadness in my life, even before I confess it. Fear and unhappiness
have started a war within me. Father,
you said that fear is torment. You said in your Word that you didn't give me a
spirit of fear. So this fear is coming from the enemy. You said that You give
me power, love, and a sound mind. Help me to find and express my inner joy. I
desire to look at the blessings you bestow upon me. I want to be a light to a
dark world but I need help within myself. By faith, I declare that I will have less fear
and sadness tonight when I go to bed than when I got up this morning. I will
not be dismayed if I don't win every single battle but I declare that by the power
of God - I WILL win the war through grace. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Look UP my friends!